Sunday, June 17, 2007

Twisted Reasoning

Here is my observations from the last 3-4 days:

I've decided that meeting single guys can go one of 2 ways in about the first 3 weeks:

1. Meet new guy - he doesn't immediately have a crush on you - you're nice to him - you get to be friends.

2. Meet a guy - does immediately have a crush on you - you're nice to him - you are leading him on. Bitch!

Sorry for the language, but that's what it seems like. If he doesn't like you, you're screwed if you ever like him back, but if he DOES like you, and you don't return the feelings you're a bitch for leading him on and crushing his heart.

If you flip the situation, though, and it's a guy meeting a girl, and they're nice to the girl, and the girl immediately likes the guy, the girl is an idiot if she assumes the guy likes her.

I'd just like to point out that it's not my fault, being NICE does not constitute leading on, and the whole situation not fair to girls.

2 comments:

--jeff * said...

1. yes, that is how it seems to go, though it's hard from the guys' side, too.

2. blood diamond was indeed a very dang and awesome movie.

Hannah said...

1. I agree, just current situation demanded a good complaining post.

2. I should buy that movie.